I always wonder, when I'm being such a pain in the ass for my husband, is that considered derhaka? In other word, merajuk la. Yup, bila merajuk kita akan guna kan perkataan yang tak berapa nak sedap didengar, nada pun lebih frekuensi dari biasa, pastu muke tak yah cakap la, masam macam nangka busuk. Tapi dalam hati ni kata 'I'm right and he's wrong'. And of course, he thinks the other way around. I always say to him that when I merajuk, it's because I need your attention (which I think every single woman would agree with me)
Dulu masa couple tak rasa bersalah sangat. But now its the husband, it always makes me feel guilty. Considering that he provide my needs and my wants, and this is what I give him in return? (Skang ni tengah 'waras' bole la pk camni, bila tgh marah, takdenye)
Looking it in a positive way, it helps me to understand more of what real married life is all about. As for me, I'm learning to act maturely like what a 20years married couples do.
Anyway, normal life isn't perfect. It's full of misunderstandings and arguments. But still I'm still wondering is that consider as derhaka
6 comments:
i'm still trying to figure that out myself...hehe. but in time you'll learn to merajuk less, i guess..as you understand each other more and your respect for your husband grow...
derhaka..jeng3. hehe
jangan la merajuk fizah, nnt keje2 lain tak jalan sape rugi? like i said many times..aku tak suke merajuk, sebab aku rase mcm memenatkan otak aku je nk pikir padahal nnt kang kena baik balik jugak (well, takkan tak baik balik kot kan)
ahaha..i like this one. hopefully takdela merajuk dikire derhaka coz kalo tak maknanye aku selalula derhaka.hehe.. merajuk kadang2 perlu juga, tp jgn over and jgn selalu sgt. fizah, betul ckp aida. awal2 kawen mmg gitu, lama2 okla ;p
aida,
i guess so.mgkn skang ni terasa macam zaman couple lagi. hehe
ernie,
tula,penat la merajuk.pastu bila baik balik terus lupa pasal hal sblm tu. so,mmg buang masa sbb penat otak. tapi susah nak elak but i guess try to kurangkan lah
chun,
jom kita sama2 kurangkan 'derhaka' kat laki kite :)
biasalah tu isteri merajuk.. lagipun merajuk kan menambah rencah dlm hidup berkeluarga..
abgpit,
bagus la kalau semua laki pk camtu..yey
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